Being different can be because of a possession or a lost, or at least that is what depends on the work of the mind.
I am talking about my hair. If I did not perform this task now, after I graduate, have my real jobs, acquire real networks, submerged in real business connections, there will not be another chance.
It is, anyway, no a lost at all. Here is the least of what I got, little or big:
- Roommates: have things to talk about prior to meeting
- Classmates: frequency of conversations increased
- Concerns (Offer for hair to be trimmed, properly): one by roommate, two by classmates, one lended ¥15,000 in anxiety of me not sufficing to feed myself
- From work: Got everyone's attention. Befriended, have more things to talk about, learn new things about coworkers, which did not happen during the first month of the start of work (not a mere conversation since then).
- Be more friendly with the restaurant manager, who helped me with my haircut.
See? Differences are not necessarily bad. In fact they are not bad at all. People judge, people talk, people laugh, but the one who makes the decision to laugh along and make more friendship opportunity is you, and the one who chooses to be depressed and shy away from the outside world before eventually rotting to death, is, you, too.
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